From a reader:
It should also be totally legit if you truly do want to lose 10lbs. There’s no shame in setting personal goals. Whether it’s wanting to look superhot in a bikini or have a brilliant and handsome suitor or buy a fancy Chanel handbag—if you’re motivated to get to the end result, I don’t think it’s fair for anyone to derail that by suggesting it’s superficial, egotistical or a bad example.
If it’s what you want to do, then do it and don’t feel guilty or apologetic for it.
I couldn’t have said it better myself.
